90210 star Tori Spelling wanted a private ceremony when she wed fellow actor Dean McDermott at the Wakaya Club in Fiji, but they wanted to celebrate their vows with their closest friends and family with a much less intimate post wedding party. Celebrity guests wrote well wishes to the newlyweds and pinned them to a wish tree, then dipped Rice Krispy Treats into chocolate while dancing to tunes from the couple’s favorite singers, Johnny and June Carter Cash. Their private ceremony from Fiji was shared with the gathered party goers in a forty minute Super 8 film silent film that was projected onto the walls during the reception, allowing guests to feel like they had been part of the intimate ceremony. So even if you do have a small intimate ceremony, film it so all your guests can watch it later. But maybe don't do it as a silent film... and maybe make it last less than 40 minutes.