"Grey’s Anatomy" and "Private Practice" star Kate Walsh plays a tough doctor on TV, but she softened up considerably for her big wedding day when she married studio executive Alex Young. Walsh and Young opted for a more traditional ceremony at a beautiful church, complete with a gospel choir.  Walsh looked stunning as her "Grey's Anatomy" co stars watched her walk down the aisle in a lace Monique Lhullier gown with three quarter length sleeves. The festivities then moved to the elegant Ojai Valley Inn and Spa for a reception lit by hundreds of candles. And your wedding can be just as classy as Kate's... Monique Lhullier might not personally design your gown for you, but you can buy a similar Monique design in stores with a fit to flair look that shares the classic elegance of Kate's custom wedding dress. And you'll look great wearing the gown when you get married in a beautiful, classic church or in a more untraditional setting of your choice. But if you want to take the best page out of Kate's wedding playbook, end your perfect day with a candlelit reception at the venue of your choice. Follow these steps and you'll have a wedding day as classy as that of any huge star.