Tradition has it that the bride in a wedding should surround herself by unmarried bridesmaids... but who cares about tradition? This is the twenty first century, and if you want to ask one of your best friends or closest female relatives be your bridesmaid, don’t let the fact that they are already married stop you. You should surround yourself with the people you want around you on your special day, so don't worry about an old tradition that nobody sticks to anymore when picking your bridesmaids. It's your day, and you should make it perfect... so throw out that, and any old tradition, that you don't feel will help make your day anymore perfect. Just watch out when throwing your bridal bouquet... because if your already married bridesmaid catches it, that's probably not a great omen for her current marriage