Why do women think that guys do things on purpose to be jerks? I have been called a jerk just for doing the everyday run of the mill activities of conversations. When guys talk most of it is a joke or a sarcastic comment. I personally feel that when I am sarcastic I make it know physically and emotionally, but in the end I always get blamed for hurting a girls feelings.My basic question is are guys and girls thought processes so different that we may never truly understand what the opposite wants or needs?